Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Napping together is an important part of a relationship

My boyfriend is a night owl and I can do both.

I cause him to often wake up early for stuff for us to do.

Tomorrow will be the earliest. I am going to see a Cerebral Palsy specialist for the first time in 10 years and my never wake up before 10am awesome dude is getting up at 6am. 6am!!!

He's kinda the best.

Good thing we like to take naps together! 

Girls let me tell you...



You deserve someone who’ll take you on cute breakfast dates and get you iced coffee. Someone who’ll give you neck kisses, head massages, and play with your hair. Someone to sit with and talk about big ideas and life. Someone to remind you how dope you are when you aren’t feeling so cool. Someone should do that for you. Because you shouldn’t have to settle for anything less.


- We love breakfast and go on the best breakfast dates, and usually share. Yeah we're Marshall and Lily. 

-I'm a tea drinker. Mostly. He actually has gotten me Ice Coffee and he works at Starbucks so he knows how to get my drinks right. 

- He does all of this and more and I took a long time to find him. So I hope you do the same! 


True

you fall in love with the little things about someone, like the sound of their laughter and the way their smile forms. 

This is very true. 

and if those things annoy you about someone, don't date them! 

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Calm

I suffer from Anxiety and the world doesn't always take kindly to those who do especially if they medicate for it, which I do.

Because of my Cerebral Palsy and the fact that I use all my upper body strength for you know...Life I developed arthritis in my chest...the first years of figuring that all out was awful, painful, scary. You feel like you are having a heart attack constantly. I was on pretty heavy pain killers to get through day to day things.

When I had my scary anxiety attack I went to the doctor and she put me on medication, I was unsure about this choice but thought I would give it a shot. I think honestly I suffered from Anxiety for years and didn't know what it was. Realizing these things was very life changing and honestly freeing.

We also found it helps me not suffer from the arthritis in my chest!!

One day I might choose not to take it and I understand why people choose not to but for me the gains outweigh what it would take away  (although I haven't found much is taken away)

You may have read before that it made it hard in relationships this subject, people thinking they knew best. Even just talking to people.

So let me just say:

being with someone who makes you feel calm and secure when you need it most instead of anxious and doubtful is very nice…


Saturday, March 19, 2016

Dating ugh


I can see why dating gets a bad wrap these days








or this gem

So I went on a date with this guy. First date, really nice and all. I had to change my mind about him when I yawned and he stuck his finger in my mouth. He's 4 years older than me.


Whaaaa? 

Keep going ladies I promise when you find a good one its worth it