Sunday, February 7, 2016

a simple amazing date

After cheap thai food,  pie and asking if we can make it to a movie only to end up watching tv (which we enjoy) at some point in the night we started talking about music and watching videos and we went through all these videos we had grown up watching and had a part of our lives. Just this simple act of staying up and talking and going down memory lane was one of the funnest nights we had. 

Spread the love

When I was in High school a friend of mine and I made anti- Valentines day shirts. That same day my mom took me to lunch for the Holiday (My mom goes all out for Holidays) while I was being all anti valentines during lunch she told me "you don't need a love to celebrate this holiday just spread love" when I got back to school I had a hand drawn valentine from a good friend and it was life changing.

From then on I always spread the love to my friends, even when I have been with someone. I have had some good Valentines as a couple but I like to think we should all show we care all year round.

This year we haven't nailed down plans but we do want to do something special, even if he works that night. Which is kinda funny to me I suggested we see Hateful 8 and he said that wasn't very Valentines Day! LOL

I have a gift for him I put together and he said he has gift for me. Its not needed for us to do a big deal or a fancy dinner.

So for those of you single, bake something for friends, host a party, or give yourself some self love. Spread the love in anyway that you can! 

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

date someone you could have fun at at a grocery store with

This is one of my favorite things about my guy and I. To know things I once hated doing can be made into an adventure is great. 

"date your best friend” means: Finding the right person for you isn’t a race, everyone has their own trail and you’ll reach the finish line regardless and I promise you it’ll be worth it.

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche

"This is why you marry your bestfriend."

When your boyfriend or girlfriend asks if you are okay..

Don’t lie to them. If you want this to work, tell them what’s bothering you. They care. It’s okay to be vulnerable with them. Don’t tell them “yes, I’m okay” and you’re not, because then you’ll be mad at them for not understanding your hurt when YOU HAVEN’T EVEN EXPLAINED IT to them. People can’t read minds. Give them the chance to listen, give them the chance to understand. Let them love you, communication is key.