Why did I start this blog:
honestly, it started as a way for me to frame my online dating in a way that wouldn’t make me constantly depressed about the whole venture, and a sense of community that you are not alone, that and my friends find them entertaining.
What do you think of match percentages on okcupid ? Bullshit or legit?
I used to think they were dumb now I see a point in it. If a guy isn't cool with me having guy friends or is against Gay marriage well thats just not a match for me I really like the match percentages - they work really well for me! I find that anyone under 80% has some big red flags for me usually stick with the 70%’s and 80%’s as long as we agree on the MAJOR things.
Do you ever worry about what others think? Like if you were eating alone in a restaurant? I don't, because I love to see people eating alone.
I love it. I always take a lot of things to do with me books, games, a notebook. I shop alone. I drive alone. I go to bookstores alone. It’s decadent, being on a date with myself. I very much enjoy it, and enjoy knowing that I don’t need the company of another to identify a good day. I have also made a lot of great friends this way because I am more willing to strike up a conversation instead of just being wrapped up with who I am with.
My ex and I broke up seven months ago. I still think about him daily. Help.
Start thinking about why you split, who you were before him, and how great it is that you have the opportunity to be everything he was, to and for yourself. Live in the sorrow, nostalgia, or whatever but… use it to fuel a creative thing for you, not self pity, or wallowing.
How is your relationship with yourself?
Just like any relationship… it’s at times one sided, a bit confusing. Exciting, difficult. It’s revealing, it’s romantic. It’s mine. Just me, and me. I have to hold myself accountable. Always.
Would you ever learn sign language if someone you were dating needed you to or Not out of necessity but because you wanted to learn to communicate in another language?
Absolutely, sign language is the 2nd language I chose to learn, I know a little bit with anything if you don't stick with it you lose it I should brush up. it’s a beautiful means of communication.
You give great advice on here, I was wondering who you go to when you need advice? A trusted friend, family member, online buddies? Who do you trust with your secrets and allow yourself to be vulnerable with?