Its been pretty quite in the dating world. Since my last date I have gotten two messages.
1. For most private thing I am willing to admit but I hate this profile part. So I added that I have a no fail plan to join the mile high club (which I do really) I had a guy ask me about this and involves basically using my disability to my advantage here so it sort of works out well that I can point out that side of me again, and when he doesn't reply you know why.....which is what happened.
2.Hey it looks like we have a lot in common. What are you looking for on here?
I hate this question so I used to say I don't really think I will know what I am looking for until it hits me in the face.
I have also answered with:I guess to sum up what I am looking for is to just find someone I click with,Being able to find someone you click with so naturally is the best feeling ever. You feel like you’ve been best friends you’re whole life, it feels like you’re coming home. You’re so comfortable with them.
Maybe now I should just shorten it to: Chemistry.
So I answer the dude and check out his profile he doesn't ever want kids (and you know that its a thing) but he apparently is super duper against tattoos, Now I have dated many a guy who tattoos not their thing, cool! They have never once said anything about mine, now I have job aspirations that limit me being to open with my tattoos so you only see them if I choose to show you but this guy dreams of removing everyones off so needless to say this is not a good match. I'll keep looking.
I have had a ton of people look at my profile which can be heartbreaking let me tell you but then I started to wonder if I have reached the level where it says I hardly reply.
There a 3 levels of messaging on Okcupid, Green: response often Orange: Response sometimes, and Red: Hardly Response
If I see a guys profile with the Orange or the Red I never write them first and so I wonder if thats happening but here is the thing.