Should you date someone who doesn't want kids???????
It stuck with me and Ironically the netflix film in the mail for me to watch the next morning was I am sam and I cried like the baby I wasn't sure I should have anymore.
I have friends who are in the relationships where one wants a kid and one doesn't.....the one who dreams of kids dumbly thinks they will change their mind (I'm not that stupid) I get that it can happen and people change, it can also change where I wake up and realize you know I would rather not have kids. I also know how dumb the ending of How I met your mother and Ted's and Robin's relationship was.
When I started dating again this time I have come across a lot of guys who don't want kids.
My mom would say no.
I went on the date with the lawyer who wanted no kids and as we ate fancy food the topic came up.
It did work out in my favor once when a guy I was not interested in messaged me and he put in big bold letters I DON'T WANT KIDS on his profile first thing
I replied with I do want kids and never heard from him again.
but I wonder if I choose this path would a piece of me always be missing?
I mean I could hang out with my friends kids. I could be the cool aunt!!
but would I every time I was with or
and if this is the new norm of no one wanting to be parents where in the world do I find the guys that want to be a dad?
Is wanting to be a dad a dying breed???
Would it come down to me making the choice to be a mom on my own?
While sure I will happily have my own I have also leaned towards adoption more in the last few years.
I could do this on my own.
raise my babies.
I have wonderful males in my life that could be the role models for my children.
I mean sure I would love this....but what if that isn't how its going to happen?
But would I want to do it on my own?
I think for now I am going to meet him and see where this goes, for all I know I won't get even a second date. Like I keep saying First Magic Castle then we'll see where it goes.
What do you think readers? When it comes to dating should you go with babies or maybes?